Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Analysis on Relationships!!

“This post is not based on someone’s life. It is just a part of daily observation and a few personal experiences.”

Care and affection begins with the inception of a relationship. Relationship dealt with in this post does not just pass on to the love relationship but all the relations which exist between a girl and a boy on the face of this planet.
What it needs to build a strong relationship? Telling you the actual truth, it needs two people, understanding between a two, a lot of care and attention and most important of the ingredients is commitment. The level of commitment defines the quality and level of one’s relationship. Everyone can promise but only a few commit and execute what they say.

We often keep arguing with the person we love the most and end up messed up with ourselves. We hurt them but in turn we feel wounded. There is no limit of loving someone. Love is just like a circle which has no ends. A relationship does not depend on how similar are the two people. It needs understanding of the differences because you will never need to explain parallel points between two of you whereas a difference always needs an explanation.

We often end up asking ourselves are we with the right person. Well here I started analyzing this question in deep. This question almost drowned me into its depth when force of buoyancy in my mind brought me up on the surface of waters of my thoughts and finally an answer dawned upon me.

A relationship is not about finding the right person. It is all about the loving the person you’re with. We initially love all the habits of our counterpart. But as we grow older together we start finding the same habits as annoying. Their calling us all the time starts pestering us, their efforts even to make us smile seems futile and immature. We start forgetting that the person was our choice and we never ever think of adapting to their habits like a change. It’s not always that the other person has changed but sometimes we are saturated with their ways.

Now, how can we decide if we can afford to lose a person or not?
If you’re away for a day or two can you live without their calls? Check if you expect their call when happy or sad.
When person is away miss them or thank god for their absence? If answer to all the questions above is positive then NEVER LET THEY LEAVE YOU.

What if you realize that he/she was the right person when they left but are not gone?

Go after them; be after their life to pardon you for all your wrong deeds. Tell them you can’t breathe without them; keep asking them for apology until and unless you’re blessed with it (never ever give up). But leave them alone if they really become heartless towards you. Just leave with a satisfaction that you tried your best. (Do all this if and only if you really mean it)

A relationship is neither easy nor very hard to handle. Just keep your cool and have faith in the other person. Learn to count on him/her and make sure whatever you do, you never feel burdened. Take a leap with faith and belief.

Let your relation be a happily committed relationship.

Sunday, January 27, 2013


Age is just a number when it comes to Old  Delhi. Yes! it is old in terms of tradition, diversification, it's vivid culture but when it comes to heart, it can beat any of the place under New Delhi. No matters WALMART, STARBUCKS etc may flourish and help swelling the INDIAN ECONOMY but tradition is a thing which no INDIAN will ever leave behind. We might have developed or modernized with time but the smell of jalebis, imartis, samosas, 
pani puri still water our mouths. From busy streets of Chandni Chowk to book market Nai Sarak, from electronics market Bhagirath Palace to Street of spices Khari Baoli, one can feel the rush inside which can't be felt anywhere else in the capital. The place is not only famous for it'd culture and tradition but also it possess heredity and history of this great nation. Red Fort stands tall and bold speaking and telling loud the history. Other historic or the places that must be visited are Jama Maszid, Gauri Shankar Mandir, Sheeshganj Gurudwara, Town Hall etc. To wonder a few I would like to tell that GALIB belonged to Old Delhi. It is one of the biggest business hub. The food here is just unbeatable and incomparable. Every place has it's own story to tell you.
While purchasing books for the last semester I discovered a new place, a very narrow road, PATLI GALI, book market. It is so narrow that one can't even peep through :P

But old Delhi is a place worth dating, seriously I said dating because after that you'll fall in love with it. 

If you ever get a chance to visit Delhi, India. Please do visit OLD DELHI. :)

Wednesday, January 23, 2013


Hi readers,
I know I am posting after a long time. Well today I have a different as well as a same topic to discuss here. I know my points may contradict ones beliefs so please I'm saying sorry for that in advance itself. 

Yesterday I had a chance, one I always dreamed of, to talk to a family member of an acid attack victim TUBA TUBASSUM, a 15 year old girl from Siwan, Bihar, India. She wanted to be a doctor but now she is an acid attack victim and getting her treatment. Acid was splashed on her by predators while she was going to attend her tuition classes which left her with burnt face, one eye blinded & other complication and she needs multiple surgeries. You may refer to the link that follows to know more about TUBA.


Yesterday while talking to her maternal uncle I felt the pain of the family undergoing these changes. It must be a really hard time for them. But, the thing I liked most about the family of these victims' is their positivism, a hope which is alive deep in their heart. I inquired about well being of TUBA to which his uncle said Thank you! I asked him not to say thank you as humanity is the only thing which asked me to support her. Although from different religion, different regions we all are humans with same red fluid flowing through our blood vessels so why to take religion as a barrier. Religion is to believe and follow. A very line in national song of INDIA teach us "MAZHAB NHI SIKHATA AAPAS MEIN BER RAKHNA" ( religion does not teach us to envy each other). There is no use of barricading in name of religion.
Tuba is someone I am very close to now. She is like a sister. I wish I could pay her a visit and tell her personally that I'M THERE WITH HER. SHE IS NOT ALONE.
She will be here next month, in Delhi as she has to see her doctors. If possible, I'll go and meet her.

It is not just Tuba who is waiting for justice to come her way.
Let's see what Indian judiciary and Politics do to help them all.
Till then we can just pray. It is my request, no matter what part of world you belong to, no matter if you know both of us ( tuba and me) pray for Tuba to get well soon.