Analysis on Relationships!!

“This post is not based on someone’s life. It is just a part of daily observation and a few personal experiences.”

Care and affection begins with the inception of a relationship. Relationship dealt with in this post does not just pass on to the love relationship but all the relations which exist between a girl and a boy on the face of this planet.

What it needs to build a strong relationship? Telling you the actual truth, it needs two people, understanding between a two, a lot of care and attention and most important of the ingredients is commitment. The level of commitment defines the quality and level of one’s relationship. Everyone can promise but only a few commit and execute what they say.

We often keep arguing with the person we love the most and end up messed up with ourselves. We hurt them but in turn we feel wounded. There is no limit of loving someone. Love is just like a circle which has no ends. A relationship does not depend on how similar are the two people. It needs understanding of the differences because you will never need to explain parallel points between two of you whereas a difference always needs an explanation.

We often end up asking ourselves are we with the right person. Well here I started analyzing this question in deep. This question almost drowned me into its depth when force of buoyancy in my mind brought me up on the surface of waters of my thoughts and finally an answer dawned upon me.

A relationship is not about finding the right person. It is all about the loving the person you’re with. We initially love all the habits of our counterpart. But as we grow older together we start finding the same habits as annoying. Their calling us all the time starts pestering us, their efforts even to make us smile seems futile and immature. We start forgetting that the person was our choice and we never ever think of adapting to their habits like a change. It’s not always that the other person has changed but sometimes we are saturated with their ways.

Now, how can we decide if we can afford to lose a person or not?
If you’re away for a day or two can you live without their calls? Check if you expect their call when happy or sad.

When person is away miss them or thank god for their absence? If answer to all the questions above is positive then NEVER LET THEY LEAVE YOU.

What if you realize that he/she was the right person when they left but are not gone?

Go after them; be after their life to pardon you for all your wrong deeds. Tell them you can’t breathe without them; keep asking them for apology until and unless you’re blessed with it (never ever give up). But leave them alone if they really become heartless towards you. Just leave with a satisfaction that you tried your best. (Do all this if and only if you really mean it)

A relationship is neither easy nor very hard to handle. Just keep your cool and have faith in the other person. Learn to count on him/her and make sure whatever you do, you never feel burdened. Take a leap with faith and belief.

Let your relation be a happily committed relationship.

OLD DELHI aka DELHI-6

Age is just a number when it comes to Old  Delhi. Yes! it is old in terms of tradition, diversification, it's vivid culture but when it comes to heart, it can beat any of the place under New Delhi. No matters WALMART, STARBUCKS etc may flourish and help swelling the INDIAN ECONOMY but tradition is a thing which no INDIAN will ever leave behind. We might have developed or modernized with time but the smell of jalebis, imartis, samosas, 

pani puri still water our mouths. From busy streets of Chandni Chowk to book market Nai Sarak, from electronics market Bhagirath Palace to Street of spices Khari Baoli, one can feel the rush inside which can't be felt anywhere else in the capital. The place is not only famous for it'd culture and tradition but also it possess heredity and history of this great nation. Red Fort stands tall and bold speaking and telling loud the history. Other historic or the places that must be visited are Jama Maszid, Gauri Shankar Mandir, Sheeshganj Gurudwara, Town Hall etc. To wonder a few I would like to tell that GALIB belonged to Old Delhi. It is one of the biggest business hub. The food here is just unbeatable and incomparable. Every place has it's own story to tell you.
While purchasing books for the last semester I discovered a new place, a very narrow road, PATLI GALI, book market. It is so narrow that one can't even peep through :P

But old Delhi is a place worth dating, seriously I said dating because after that you'll fall in love with it. 

NOTE TO THE READERS OUTSIDE INDIA:
If you ever get a chance to visit Delhi, India. Please do visit OLD DELHI. :)

RELIGION IS A BARRIER ONLY IF YOU BELIEVE IT TO BE.

Hi readers,
I know I am posting after a long time. Well today I have a different as well as a same topic to discuss here. I know my points may contradict ones beliefs so please I'm saying sorry for that in advance itself. 

Yesterday I had a chance, one I always dreamed of, to talk to a family member of an acid attack victim TUBA TUBASSUM, a 15 year old girl from Siwan, Bihar, India. She wanted to be a doctor but now she is an acid attack victim and getting her treatment. Acid was splashed on her by predators while she was going to attend her tuition classes which left her with burnt face, one eye blinded & other complication and she needs multiple surgeries. You may refer to the link that follows to know more about TUBA.

TUBA's FATHER SPEAKS FOR HER

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=6ZJxCztzBlY

Yesterday while talking to her maternal uncle I felt the pain of the family undergoing these changes. It must be a really hard time for them. But, the thing I liked most about the family of these victims' is their positivism, a hope which is alive deep in their heart. I inquired about well being of TUBA to which his uncle said Thank you! I asked him not to say thank you as humanity is the only thing which asked me to support her. Although from different religion, different regions we all are humans with same red fluid flowing through our blood vessels so why to take religion as a barrier. Religion is to believe and follow. A very line in national song of INDIA teach us "MAZHAB NHI SIKHATA AAPAS MEIN BER RAKHNA" ( religion does not teach us to envy each other). There is no use of barricading in name of religion.
Tuba is someone I am very close to now. She is like a sister. I wish I could pay her a visit and tell her personally that I'M THERE WITH HER. SHE IS NOT ALONE.
She will be here next month, in Delhi as she has to see her doctors. If possible, I'll go and meet her.

It is not just Tuba who is waiting for justice to come her way.
Let's see what Indian judiciary and Politics do to help them all.
Till then we can just pray. It is my request, no matter what part of world you belong to, no matter if you know both of us ( tuba and me) pray for Tuba to get well soon.

The Real Face of The Capital

The Real Face of The Capital 

Life in the capital of any nation is like moving in a fast lane where life can't stop or slow down. Today while moving in the streets of the HEART OF THE CAPITAL, CONNAUGHT PLACE had an ugly view which I have already heard of in my childhood days. To my dismay I spotted a gang of rag pickers doping on the street and I felt a pity on myself and the people around who give them alms to feed upon. 

  Those poor hands which can't afford a day's meal were doping themselves?? i mean how is that possible..? Are they able to beg that huge amount of money to afford drugs or they are provided drugs free of cost? But in my haste, I walked towards my destined place shoeing away the thoughts in my mind.

When i reached home, I told my parents about what I experienced on my way, and they were indifferent to what they heard as per my expectations because they only told me about this ugly reality of that place.

But I just could not bring myself back to life after seeing what i shouldn't have seen. I know it would not be easy for a reader to believe, but I'm still thinking about it. What can we do to protect our society from drugs?  How can we neglect everything that falls in our way? It's not about caste and creed everywhere i guess? 

How can a person spend his earning( alms in this case) in drugs and not feeding on a one course meal? 

Is this scenario prevailing everywhere? Aaaahhh...!!! My head is about to blast.

This very day in my life is real example of taste over necessity. 

I don't want tomorrow to come :) :)

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. 

You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. 

When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. 

You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. 

You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. 

You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. 

You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. 

Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.


 :) :) :)

MESSAGE FROM THE MASIHAA :)

JUST SITTING IDLE AFTER THE LAST EXAM AND THINKING ABOUT WHAT I LEARNT FROM LIFE AND DIFFERENT PEOPLE...MAY BE MY PARENTS, TEACHERS, FRIENDS...THAT HARDLY MATTERS...MAIN THING IS I LEARNT IT AND I FOLLOW IT..

MAY BE THE RHYME SCHEME SHAKES SOMEWHERE...BUT THIS COULD NOT BE DONE IN A BETTER WAY :) :)

HOPE YOU'LL LIKE IT, ENJOY IT :) :)

DO NOT FORGET TO CHECK THE IMAGES AT THE END OF THE ARTICLE :) :)

 There it goes my little girl,

That's how this world runs.

One who came will go one day,

Sooner or later no one can say.

My girl my girl I tell you here,

Everything is planned "THERE".

You should learn about it,

This is called the life's hit.

Life will turn you in direction predefined,

Although everything can be redefined.

Keep working to achieve what you desire,

I will always help you with what you heir.

Never ever confuse your aims and dreams,

One need hard work other need sound sleep.

Keep yourself committed to what you do,

Just keep walking in your sized shoes.

No matter what comes your way,

Just beat your sorrows with gay.

Life is a battle so  rough and tough,

But winner is who never gives up.

ARCHANGEL GABREIL

EASY TO MAKE, HARD TO IMPLEMENT

ACCEPT THE FACT

THE REALITY IS
YOU'RE
STRONGER
THAN YOU THINK!

JUST BE YOURSELF...YOU ONLY FIT YOUR SHOES

BE POSITIVE, SPREAD THE POSITIVITY!!

SAY LIFE

the red letter "F"

The most fucking letter  in 26 alphabets, F is the letter which can shake your life, can bring turmoils in it...the letter which signifies failure...throughout my school life, I use to hate the letter F and the red colored F is the main concern we all face somewhere or other in our lives...but does this "F"really the deciding factor of another word "future" starting with it??? Arggghhhh.!!!! :@ the harsh reality: yes! it does because what people run after are the grades, but they do not understand what impact that "F" could have created in one's life.
Apart from academics, THIS LETTER can deteriorate one's personal life and relations. just one mistake and your life is finished... :-\ this can be made better if we try to fit into other's shoes and walk a little distance to see the reason behind the things and try our best to cut the crap...but we oftentimes do not  do that because we forget that life is not a two faced coin but it has three faces-one is your part, second is other's while the third one is REALITY...but we often forget about the third...the silent part of it...
Many of us because of facing the disgust have started living a life of someone else with a completely different persona.
Let this letter F be the turning point of your life. Let it not unilaterally decide your future.

CHEERS TO LIFE...!!!!